You would probably agree that life in our world right now is feeling especially disrupted and dangerous, difficult and scary.
We are feeling turbulence in politics, in deep personal shifts and in relationships.
We feel vulnerable as we watch the news.
Many of us are experiencing emotional or physical violence where we live.
We need new images, creative strategies, and heartful new behaviors to keep bringing us back to what we know is true inside.
I got an email with this interesting question:
I’m a big believer in our abilities to manifest our realities. I also believe in the exponential power of a group… and so I wonder what we are creating every time we “all” come into agreement that we are navigating “tough” or “turbulent” times. This could simply be my being nit-picky about language, and it is something I wonder about frequently. Is it possible we continue to manifest the struggle and strife that’s being experienced because we continue to agree that it IS this way?
Some of my thoughts in response:
I do think that there is tendency in people to tough it out and soldier on. We think, kind of unconsciously, that “this is just how it is,” or “this is just how I am…and nothing will change.” And then change does slow down.
And I believe that there is a kind of mass consciousness that is being generated by many sources, the media, some of our religious institutions, by all of our institutions, really. Humans have been a tribal people for a long long time.
But now I notice that there is a change happening. We are being asked as a whole humanity to learn to stand in our own individual presence in a way that still honors the group consciousness. It is hard to do this! And there are many forces in the world that strongly, even violently, resist this kind of freedom and independence.
People will give up a lot to feel safe, so fear is an ancient tool in the hands of those who would control others. Humans are facing this throughout the world. The current struggle with fear is the great struggle of our time…maybe of all times.
But I believe that what looks to us in the moment like terrible disorganization and trauma is also, underneath it all, change happening. It is the dramatic meeting of the forces of change clashing with the forces of stasis.
Flexibility and rigidity, expansion and constriction, moving and solid…these are the two essential forces in the universe. Everything is made of some balance of these two forces. There is never a final completion; the movement is always in an apparent disarray.
Think of a tightrope walker. You never see a tightrope walker stop, way up there on the line. They are always finding themselves out of balance. They are continually throwing themselves toward balance, always moving forward.
There are times in the world when there is more, or less disarray. Right now is a time of exceptional disarray. I believe this means that we are in a time of powerful change. The old, more rigid systems are falling away… unwillingly. There is a life force in these rigid systems that wants to maintain itself, to survive. But it is the way of the universe that movement always emerges out of being stuck in imbalance.
The best thing any of us can do is to find individual personal practices that help to hold a quieter space for this unfolding drama. We can create quiet miracles. We can do things that will give us strength, give us joy, give us inner and outer nourishment. We can touch the heart of the person in front of us. We can touch the heart of the land we are standing on.
The true deep soul essence of the human spirit is joy, and creativity, flexibility, and freedom. The human spirit will always emerge over time. Movement toward creativity and fluidity is what actually creates chaos.
The more we can agree on this, and hold a steady space inside ourselves, the more smoothly the flow through chaos toward harmony can emerge. Our agreement is always powerful.
Hello Rue,
Interesting emails and this new-to-me website. I feel very in tune with the attitudes voiced here, from you as one human being and also your voice for the world. I also often feel more alive through writing.
I agree about the thought that whatever disruption we are in it is part of dealing with the clashes of opposites.
With regard to balance, the tight rope walker and the child learning to walk need and must create/adapt to states of stillness and off-balance. Neither is top dog. Life’s a dance. However there does become a tipping point beyond which manageable change is lost, as is obvious with a tight rope walker or someone who is drunk-walker when they may or will lose control! Learning to lose control by choice, plus living as uncertainties arise is also part of the necessary process of life I think.
I have spent a life time wrapped in the fog of confusion. The resource I am calling on is ‘This lightness of creative being’. Sometimes I see the light, and feel lighter. Yes, that leads to joy.
Still love your website, however invisible I may sometimes feel or become. Also pieces from Gwyneth Moss and Guy Finley’s lessons I find move me too.
Perhaps you can see I am feeling a little less chaotic than when last I posted to you.
My niece who is a BBC producer and presenter is planning some work on ‘Light’. One of her team, a man, is blind and now facing the total loss of light, all darkness no longer able to distinguish day from night. I am sure she will be exploring the topic in multiple lights! She has previously been up for awards related to work in radio in 6 vastly different areas; with the kitchen café, on gardening-food, plus things about pain and bi-polar (which she has met in our family and explored much more widely), and work within the armed forces with The Black Watch. She and I like to appreciate diversity so long as it truly is involving.
I shall be sending her a poem I found online, called Light Pressure by Peter Howard
first published in Envoi, 1996.
With love and light,
Liz
The more history that I read, the more I am coming to believe that there have been better times than right now, and there have been many worse times than right now to be alive.
It is important for each person to do what they can, in their own way, to make life better. Each person’s individual effort is significant because we are all connected to each other in the great web of the universe.
I personally try to stay at a distance from the “news” because a constant diet of doom and gloom is not good for anyone. Time alone by myself helps me to keep my balance and keep my sanity!
Thank you June! I agree about the news. Although I also try to stay aware of what is happening. I want to hold the earth and humanity in a generative place in myself. I feel like this is an affirmation that things, individuals, countries can change. I appreciate that your focus is doing what you can, in your own way, to make life better.
Thank you for posting, Liz. So nice to hear from you. You and your niece might be interested in the book, AND THERE WAS LIGHT, by Jacques Lusseyran, a blind hero of the French resistance. He earned to see the inner light of people, places and events. It is a wonderful book.